I find my thoughts today clear as they have not been in weeks. The days that have passed since my parting of the ways with Earendur have been eventful to say the least. The decision to part with him was not easy. It tore at my heart. I could not live my life as though I were a captive in my own home simply because of his fears for my safety and his unreasonable desire to shelter me.
He never took the time to understand me, and I do not belive he ever would have for all his insitance that he would have changed his world to suit me. To be treated like a possesion by one who claims that I am the most important thing in his world. That he would be constantly pushing me to live with the elves, where I felt nothing but fear and nervousness infuriated me. Did he not care at all about my feelings? Did he truely think I would be more comfortable there than in my own home simply because he believed it safer?
Partings bring new beginings and suprises, the babe whos birth I was so eager for, the little life that is all that keeps me going, is not as I had belived Earendurs child. This fact brings me a rather confusing sense of relief.
My feelings for Lord Longden, the babe's father, are no less confused than my feelings for Earen, but they do not tear at my heart and soul the way that he did. Tal treats me well. I have the freedom of the castle within reason and use of M'lords coach or any horse in the stables, as long as I do not go riding alone. He allows me to chose my own companion though which pleases me. I most often take the little lady's maid that Tal had sent to see to my comfort and well being after my first eve in Longden castle.
She is a gentle creature and seems truely pleased about the baby. They call her Lillia a name that truely suits her quiet nature. We spend long hours talking and she helps me sort through the overwhelming morass and mire that are my emotions. Lillia says her sister was a midwife, and that she said that the babe most like is the source of what seems unreasonable shifts in mood in me. I hope as time passes that these wild swings will smooth and my temper will even out.
Tomorrow Lillia and I will ride to the marketplace, I wish to find a wedding gift for M'lord Longden, I may be coming into this marriage a bride of duty, but I will be damned to hell before My child suffers because my husband and I can not even be civil to each other. I intend to put every effort into making this work for my babe's sake.
LRW
He never took the time to understand me, and I do not belive he ever would have for all his insitance that he would have changed his world to suit me. To be treated like a possesion by one who claims that I am the most important thing in his world. That he would be constantly pushing me to live with the elves, where I felt nothing but fear and nervousness infuriated me. Did he not care at all about my feelings? Did he truely think I would be more comfortable there than in my own home simply because he believed it safer?
Partings bring new beginings and suprises, the babe whos birth I was so eager for, the little life that is all that keeps me going, is not as I had belived Earendurs child. This fact brings me a rather confusing sense of relief.
My feelings for Lord Longden, the babe's father, are no less confused than my feelings for Earen, but they do not tear at my heart and soul the way that he did. Tal treats me well. I have the freedom of the castle within reason and use of M'lords coach or any horse in the stables, as long as I do not go riding alone. He allows me to chose my own companion though which pleases me. I most often take the little lady's maid that Tal had sent to see to my comfort and well being after my first eve in Longden castle.
She is a gentle creature and seems truely pleased about the baby. They call her Lillia a name that truely suits her quiet nature. We spend long hours talking and she helps me sort through the overwhelming morass and mire that are my emotions. Lillia says her sister was a midwife, and that she said that the babe most like is the source of what seems unreasonable shifts in mood in me. I hope as time passes that these wild swings will smooth and my temper will even out.
Tomorrow Lillia and I will ride to the marketplace, I wish to find a wedding gift for M'lord Longden, I may be coming into this marriage a bride of duty, but I will be damned to hell before My child suffers because my husband and I can not even be civil to each other. I intend to put every effort into making this work for my babe's sake.
LRW