The unknown. The scariest part of life is the unknown. Being out of control, time slipping through your fingers, the twists, turns and sudden drops you can?t anticipate. I've never handled the unknown well and not knowing what would happen was the hardest part of waiting. It?s been about two weeks now since I was bitten. The full moon is on Tuesday, the third of February and I have done everything but prepare for it. I've never been one to give into blind optimism but even believing that I had a sliver of hope was easier to grasp and hold to than the prospects of me becoming a Werewolf. How could one night gone incredibly wrong lead to this? I have carried on as I usually do, I clean at Salvador?s three days a week, I go the gym every morning and train with Melanie, I go to dance class, the duels, and I have hung out with my friends. My nights are usually spent with Ketch, except for the occasional nights that I need me time which usually involves Aoife as well.
Would being prepared for the what ifs really help me? I didn't think so. I felt like trying to prepare for this big maybe would only overwhelm me and there are so many risks that come with my anxiety. Ketch experienced an episode with me last week, it was brutal, for both of us. He couldn't have been any more perfect than he was in those moments and that?s why I know that I am making the right choice in having him with me on the full moon. Ketch is resilient and even though there are still a lot of question marks as to who he is, I am happy to learn him a moment at a time and slowly watch the puzzle begin to take shape. Despite all of the unknowns surrounding him, I know that he is a man who has acquired strength through life experiences and he has been molded and forged into something more steely than what he even appears. He doesn't say a lot and he usually thinks that he is saying the wrong things but some how he says the things I need to hear. He has a way of speaking that actually gets through to me. He doesn't put up with my shit either, doesn't coddle me or my bad habits. This isn't to say he is abrasive or unkind, quite the opposite. These things just add to the list of why I know he should be with me. He will help me through this and I believe that he will be strong enough to deal with whatever happens.
Despite my chosen ignorance and blindness to my situation, there were people who decided I needed to be prepared. I spent Monday trying to do things that I might miss should I change. I can?t know what to expect but if I do change, I won?t be human anymore. Surely my experiences will be different. I ended up not being able to think of anything that was amazingly epic but I did eat at my favorite places and decided to go to the duels. What if this was my last time to duel as a human?
I ran into Cris at the duels, over the last two weeks or so we have started becoming something akin to friends and he has been checking up on me from time to time to see how I am handling the bite. He seemed surprised to find out how unprepared I was regarding the endless possibilities that could take place and he questioned me about it. I wasn't prepared to have my night go down the drain, I wanted to be with friends and have fun. What if I couldn't handle the change? What if I died? Ketch came and I decided to go ahead and duel, get in one last fight before?well before the unknown. By the time I was done dueling, Cris had left and Ketch looked uneasy. That certainly wasn?t how I wanted this night to go.
Would being prepared for the what ifs really help me? I didn't think so. I felt like trying to prepare for this big maybe would only overwhelm me and there are so many risks that come with my anxiety. Ketch experienced an episode with me last week, it was brutal, for both of us. He couldn't have been any more perfect than he was in those moments and that?s why I know that I am making the right choice in having him with me on the full moon. Ketch is resilient and even though there are still a lot of question marks as to who he is, I am happy to learn him a moment at a time and slowly watch the puzzle begin to take shape. Despite all of the unknowns surrounding him, I know that he is a man who has acquired strength through life experiences and he has been molded and forged into something more steely than what he even appears. He doesn't say a lot and he usually thinks that he is saying the wrong things but some how he says the things I need to hear. He has a way of speaking that actually gets through to me. He doesn't put up with my shit either, doesn't coddle me or my bad habits. This isn't to say he is abrasive or unkind, quite the opposite. These things just add to the list of why I know he should be with me. He will help me through this and I believe that he will be strong enough to deal with whatever happens.
Despite my chosen ignorance and blindness to my situation, there were people who decided I needed to be prepared. I spent Monday trying to do things that I might miss should I change. I can?t know what to expect but if I do change, I won?t be human anymore. Surely my experiences will be different. I ended up not being able to think of anything that was amazingly epic but I did eat at my favorite places and decided to go to the duels. What if this was my last time to duel as a human?
I ran into Cris at the duels, over the last two weeks or so we have started becoming something akin to friends and he has been checking up on me from time to time to see how I am handling the bite. He seemed surprised to find out how unprepared I was regarding the endless possibilities that could take place and he questioned me about it. I wasn't prepared to have my night go down the drain, I wanted to be with friends and have fun. What if I couldn't handle the change? What if I died? Ketch came and I decided to go ahead and duel, get in one last fight before?well before the unknown. By the time I was done dueling, Cris had left and Ketch looked uneasy. That certainly wasn?t how I wanted this night to go.