JULY 25th, 2010
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I'm too tough for him,
I say, stay in there, I'm not going
to let anybody see
you.
My mother would tell me all the time that we were poor.
Not always in so many words but she loved to remind me and her, I guess, at any chance she could get. She'd walk me down the street sometimes and point at the men in clean, pressed suits, or the fancy, shiny cars idling in the traffic. Sometimes we'd take the bus and she'd spend hours pointing at the women with the prettiest clothes, jewelry and handsomest men. She'd point and say how she never had that as a little girl and she'd never be able to afford it now, because we were poor. But if I went to school and read my books, maybe I wouldn't end up like her.
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I pour whiskey on him and inhale
cigarette smoke
and the whores and the bartenders
and the grocery clerks
never know that
he's
in there.
My earliest memories of her were on the fire escape in the summer. She'd complained of the heat earlier. The heat never bothered me back then, I was a kid and I swear all children refill via the sun and warmth while it just drained the life out of adults. She spent most of her time when she was home outside, smoking. Which, as I grew older became a point of dark humor but this story isn't about me being older. It's about that point in time, this time when she decided I needed to have my weekly reminder that we were poor.
The thing is? At that age I didn't even know we were poor. She could point all she wanted and explain all she liked but my mind simply would not wrap around it. Children don't collect terms of have and have-nots. They think in daydreams, instincts. Are we hot? Cold? Scared? Safe? Fed? Happy? Sad? Tired? Awake? What's that? Who's there? Am I a pilot today or an astronaut?
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I'm too tough for him,
I say,
stay down, do you want to mess
me up?
you want to screw up the
works?
you want to blow my book sales in
Europe?
Children don't think in limits. They think in stars; endless and bright.
We had an apartment that kept most of the rain, snow, wind and weather from us. The toilet usually worked, the sink had water. At night, the fridge would whine loudly and I'd imagine metal robots dispensing evil vegetables. My clothes came from a place called the Salvation Army and I thought that was pretty neat.
She called me over late one night when the summer was limping along under the weight of her own heat. Chain smoking her Marlboro reds, she leaned over the metal railing wearing a thin, worn shift. The closer I came the clearer I could hear her smoke, too. Deep inhale with a quick, sharp exhale that billowed outward then hung in the stale, hot air. I didn't like it when she smoked like that. It meant she was annoyed.
I loved my mother always as a little girl except when she was annoyed.
"Look," she said, jerked her head in a downward nod. I didn't want to, but I did anyway. There was a sleek, black limousine in the garbage strewn side street below. Its engine purred dangerous as cornered cats. I watched without word as my mother?s friends, women who lived in the same building as us, gathered around it. I didn't know why, but I will forever see this part of this memory as moths beating their wings uselessly against light bulbs.
"You see that?" my mother's voice turned raspy. Five years from now I would finally understand what it meant. That the word I wanted to use was: bitter. She cupped my face harshly to make sure I was actually paying attention. I had the habit of looking at people. Nodding at people. Speaking to people and fooling them. But I wasn't really there. I was day dreaming elsewhere.
"Anyone ever tells you they better than you because they got money is a fxcking liar. You can throw money at a dirty dog all you like, but he still stinks like shxt. The only difference between a rich man and a poor man is that a rich man's got enough money to pay someone to forget about what he did and a poor man's got nobody who gives a shxt about what he's doing." Her fingers pressed hard enough to almost bloom bruises. "You ain't no different or no worse or better because of where or how you were born.
"Go to school, Poesy. Go to school. Read books. And don't you ever, ever rely on anyone, especially a man for nothin'." She let go of my face and as I sighed with relief, focused elsewhere. She tossed the cigarette over the balcony and grinned in a manner that always frightened me as it bounced off the hood of a car, sparking.
"You hear me?"
"Go to school. Read books. Don't rely on anyone, especially a man," I parroted best as I could without sounding bored. Every week, the same lecture. The words showed up in my dreams some times, burning my retinas with their horrible day-glo colors, floating over whatever I was dreaming about. GO TO SCHOOOOOL, a talking rat would tell me. READ BOOKS, king Arthur once said from his throne. DON'T RELY ON MEN, a talking pencil sharpener during one of my at school dreams said.
I hated them. I hated hearing them. I hated that she felt like repeating them and childishly hated her in these snap shots of her second hand smoke bitterness, but it was an immature hate. I hated all this the same way I hated having to eat peas and broccoli back then.
I wish I could go back and tell her how god damn wise those words were.
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I'm too clever, I only let him out
at night sometimes
when everybody's asleep.
I say, I know that you're there,
so don't be
sad.
then I put him back,
but he's singing a little
in there, I haven't quite let him
die
and we sleep together like
that
with our
secret pact
and it's nice enough to
make a man
weep, but I don't
weep, do
you?*
*Poem ? Charles Bukowski
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I'm too tough for him,
I say, stay in there, I'm not going
to let anybody see
you.
My mother would tell me all the time that we were poor.
Not always in so many words but she loved to remind me and her, I guess, at any chance she could get. She'd walk me down the street sometimes and point at the men in clean, pressed suits, or the fancy, shiny cars idling in the traffic. Sometimes we'd take the bus and she'd spend hours pointing at the women with the prettiest clothes, jewelry and handsomest men. She'd point and say how she never had that as a little girl and she'd never be able to afford it now, because we were poor. But if I went to school and read my books, maybe I wouldn't end up like her.
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I pour whiskey on him and inhale
cigarette smoke
and the whores and the bartenders
and the grocery clerks
never know that
he's
in there.
My earliest memories of her were on the fire escape in the summer. She'd complained of the heat earlier. The heat never bothered me back then, I was a kid and I swear all children refill via the sun and warmth while it just drained the life out of adults. She spent most of her time when she was home outside, smoking. Which, as I grew older became a point of dark humor but this story isn't about me being older. It's about that point in time, this time when she decided I needed to have my weekly reminder that we were poor.
The thing is? At that age I didn't even know we were poor. She could point all she wanted and explain all she liked but my mind simply would not wrap around it. Children don't collect terms of have and have-nots. They think in daydreams, instincts. Are we hot? Cold? Scared? Safe? Fed? Happy? Sad? Tired? Awake? What's that? Who's there? Am I a pilot today or an astronaut?
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I'm too tough for him,
I say,
stay down, do you want to mess
me up?
you want to screw up the
works?
you want to blow my book sales in
Europe?
Children don't think in limits. They think in stars; endless and bright.
We had an apartment that kept most of the rain, snow, wind and weather from us. The toilet usually worked, the sink had water. At night, the fridge would whine loudly and I'd imagine metal robots dispensing evil vegetables. My clothes came from a place called the Salvation Army and I thought that was pretty neat.
She called me over late one night when the summer was limping along under the weight of her own heat. Chain smoking her Marlboro reds, she leaned over the metal railing wearing a thin, worn shift. The closer I came the clearer I could hear her smoke, too. Deep inhale with a quick, sharp exhale that billowed outward then hung in the stale, hot air. I didn't like it when she smoked like that. It meant she was annoyed.
I loved my mother always as a little girl except when she was annoyed.
"Look," she said, jerked her head in a downward nod. I didn't want to, but I did anyway. There was a sleek, black limousine in the garbage strewn side street below. Its engine purred dangerous as cornered cats. I watched without word as my mother?s friends, women who lived in the same building as us, gathered around it. I didn't know why, but I will forever see this part of this memory as moths beating their wings uselessly against light bulbs.
"You see that?" my mother's voice turned raspy. Five years from now I would finally understand what it meant. That the word I wanted to use was: bitter. She cupped my face harshly to make sure I was actually paying attention. I had the habit of looking at people. Nodding at people. Speaking to people and fooling them. But I wasn't really there. I was day dreaming elsewhere.
"Anyone ever tells you they better than you because they got money is a fxcking liar. You can throw money at a dirty dog all you like, but he still stinks like shxt. The only difference between a rich man and a poor man is that a rich man's got enough money to pay someone to forget about what he did and a poor man's got nobody who gives a shxt about what he's doing." Her fingers pressed hard enough to almost bloom bruises. "You ain't no different or no worse or better because of where or how you were born.
"Go to school, Poesy. Go to school. Read books. And don't you ever, ever rely on anyone, especially a man for nothin'." She let go of my face and as I sighed with relief, focused elsewhere. She tossed the cigarette over the balcony and grinned in a manner that always frightened me as it bounced off the hood of a car, sparking.
"You hear me?"
"Go to school. Read books. Don't rely on anyone, especially a man," I parroted best as I could without sounding bored. Every week, the same lecture. The words showed up in my dreams some times, burning my retinas with their horrible day-glo colors, floating over whatever I was dreaming about. GO TO SCHOOOOOL, a talking rat would tell me. READ BOOKS, king Arthur once said from his throne. DON'T RELY ON MEN, a talking pencil sharpener during one of my at school dreams said.
I hated them. I hated hearing them. I hated that she felt like repeating them and childishly hated her in these snap shots of her second hand smoke bitterness, but it was an immature hate. I hated all this the same way I hated having to eat peas and broccoli back then.
I wish I could go back and tell her how god damn wise those words were.
there's a bluebird in my heart that
wants to get out
but I'm too clever, I only let him out
at night sometimes
when everybody's asleep.
I say, I know that you're there,
so don't be
sad.
then I put him back,
but he's singing a little
in there, I haven't quite let him
die
and we sleep together like
that
with our
secret pact
and it's nice enough to
make a man
weep, but I don't
weep, do
you?*
*Poem ? Charles Bukowski