"Here's what I hate: I hate that after more than a decade of this, I still wake up some mornings and the first thought on my mind is when am I gonna score?
"I hate thinking I can control it, like almost convincing myself that I can handle taking just one pill to ease the pain. I say to myself, I've been so good, so in control. And I'd be taking it for real reasons, for actual physical pain. Just until the ache stopped. I deserve to feel better. Don't I deserve to feel better?
"But even worse than that, is when I'm feeling good. I mean, I had a really great weekend with the guy I'm seeing. But it's like, I just keep thinking back you know? My brain goes there and I don't know why and I don't know how to stop it. I start thinking about how good it felt to have sex when I was using. And I think I should explain it to him, so he knows, and then maybe if we did a hit together, we could enjoy it just once, and then we'd stop because even if I'm not strong, he's strong.
"God, how sick is that? I mean, at this point can I even blame it on a chemical dependency? Cause I think it's just me. It's just me. I'm just sick. I get one good thing - no, I get one amazing thing and I want to blow it on one cheap freaking score, and I want to drag him into it, the one good thing that I've got.
"And you know what I said to him the other night? I said, I said the worst things I've ever done I've done sober. That's such unbelievable bull. Like I'm trying not to take responsibility for the crap I did while I was high. I mean, I probably don't even remember half of it. Seriously, how would I remember?
"I did it all. Me. I did it. I don't know why I have to keep repeating that to myself. I don't know why I keep forgetting that. I'm the one responsible. I made those choices.
"So, yeah, I've been thinking about it more. You know, how to lift some. Some of the pain medication that I picked up for him. Stashing it, and trying to figure out what I'd need to do to get away with it, right? Like when I'd take it, and how much I could take without tipping him off. I think about where I could hide it. I think about it a lot. You know, it's like I'm formulating a plan.
"I haven't told that many people here that I'm recovering. But like... everyone I've told... sometimes I feel like they look at me like they think I'm just an inch away from using again. It's the junkie look, you know? Like they've gotta keep an eye on me. Make sure I'm keeping in line, and wondering if I'm using again.
"He never gives me that look.
"Maybe he should though. I mean, just listen to me. Maybe he's the one who's wrong.
"I don't want to lie to him. I don't want to be a liar. I mean, I'm a junkie, right? I'm a good liar. But I don't want to be one for him. Are secrets lies? Because he already knows I have secrets. How do I know what secrets to keep? If I want to keep a secret from him, does that make me a liar?
"Anyhow, so I'm here now. I'm telling you guys. I hate freaking talking at these things. I freaking hate it. But I'm here. I just keep coming here. So maybe tomorrow when I wake up I won't think about when I'm gonna score. Don't know what I'm gonna do tomorrow."
"I hate thinking I can control it, like almost convincing myself that I can handle taking just one pill to ease the pain. I say to myself, I've been so good, so in control. And I'd be taking it for real reasons, for actual physical pain. Just until the ache stopped. I deserve to feel better. Don't I deserve to feel better?
"But even worse than that, is when I'm feeling good. I mean, I had a really great weekend with the guy I'm seeing. But it's like, I just keep thinking back you know? My brain goes there and I don't know why and I don't know how to stop it. I start thinking about how good it felt to have sex when I was using. And I think I should explain it to him, so he knows, and then maybe if we did a hit together, we could enjoy it just once, and then we'd stop because even if I'm not strong, he's strong.
"God, how sick is that? I mean, at this point can I even blame it on a chemical dependency? Cause I think it's just me. It's just me. I'm just sick. I get one good thing - no, I get one amazing thing and I want to blow it on one cheap freaking score, and I want to drag him into it, the one good thing that I've got.
"And you know what I said to him the other night? I said, I said the worst things I've ever done I've done sober. That's such unbelievable bull. Like I'm trying not to take responsibility for the crap I did while I was high. I mean, I probably don't even remember half of it. Seriously, how would I remember?
"I did it all. Me. I did it. I don't know why I have to keep repeating that to myself. I don't know why I keep forgetting that. I'm the one responsible. I made those choices.
"So, yeah, I've been thinking about it more. You know, how to lift some. Some of the pain medication that I picked up for him. Stashing it, and trying to figure out what I'd need to do to get away with it, right? Like when I'd take it, and how much I could take without tipping him off. I think about where I could hide it. I think about it a lot. You know, it's like I'm formulating a plan.
"I haven't told that many people here that I'm recovering. But like... everyone I've told... sometimes I feel like they look at me like they think I'm just an inch away from using again. It's the junkie look, you know? Like they've gotta keep an eye on me. Make sure I'm keeping in line, and wondering if I'm using again.
"He never gives me that look.
"Maybe he should though. I mean, just listen to me. Maybe he's the one who's wrong.
"I don't want to lie to him. I don't want to be a liar. I mean, I'm a junkie, right? I'm a good liar. But I don't want to be one for him. Are secrets lies? Because he already knows I have secrets. How do I know what secrets to keep? If I want to keep a secret from him, does that make me a liar?
"Anyhow, so I'm here now. I'm telling you guys. I hate freaking talking at these things. I freaking hate it. But I'm here. I just keep coming here. So maybe tomorrow when I wake up I won't think about when I'm gonna score. Don't know what I'm gonna do tomorrow."